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What you always wanted to know about them but didn’t know who to ask. Now you can read this and ask questions later. Threesomes, or threeways, as they are sometimes referred to, consist of three people, of any sex or gender, who engage in sexual activity together. Not to be confused with polyamory, which is about multiple romantic/sexual relationships. We’ll leave that subject alone for now. Promise to get to that some other time. Threesomes can be arranged in advance, … Read More

It’s June 2018 which means, in addition to other celebrations such as weddings and the like, it’s Pride month. Members and supporters of the LGBT+ communities are raising their flags and their voices for equality and inclusion. We can celebrate the advances made here in the USA and abroad, but there is much more that needs to be done. You may think that this is not your struggle, that you are not personally affected by the injustice which continues, that … Read More

Joining the fray or jumping on the bandwagon is more common than ever since the rise of social media platforms. As a mental health professional, I prefer to call my involvement as “weighing in on the topic.” Semantics, you say? Perhaps. But when I think a topic such as this is discussed without some basic information to help form opinions and conclusions, I become somewhat uneasy. So here we go. I started out by doing some online investigating. I dare … Read More

When assigning a label to define one’s sexual orientation, it has historically been limited to one of the top three. Yes, there is a fourth. One that there have been numerous discussions about, which is Asexual. However, that issue has been widely debated among professionals in the field of Sexology and Sexual Therapy. I am not getting into that debate here and now. Perhaps not ever within this forum. For today’s purpose, just try not to think about that for … Read More

After many years of practice as a sex therapist, I think that it’s time I got in on the discussion around sexual harassment and abuse. For those of us in this field, it is a conversation fraught with personal and societal pressures. I feel that I must start by saying that no one should ever be subjected to unwanted sexual advances or violations. Nobody. Not women, not men, not boys, not girls, not young nor old…..nobody! I have had this … Read More

How many times has this happened to you? You’re minding your own business, sitting in your living room or the kitchen or somewhere else you thought was safe, when your partner unexpectedly asks: What are you thinking about? You freeze. Your mind races. You stop to consider: What was I thinking about? Is there a good answer? Should I tell the truth? Why not? It wasn’t anything special. Or was it? Think fast because if you take too long to … Read More

Every talk show and entertainment “news” program has been buzzing about the upcoming release of the movie based on the book series with the same name: Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s all over social media and is being discussed, sometimes at length, in almost every doctor and dentist office waiting room. Now that the very popular book trilogy has been read, and probably re-read, the movie is scheduled to be released this Friday, February 13th. Good luck! And it’s just … Read More

When discussing sex and sexuality it is important to remember a few things. First, when talking about sex we need to consider that the word sex is both a noun and a verb. The word sex, when used as a noun, refers to the biological differences between male and female. Yes, there are variations of the two, as in Intersex, or when gender doesn’t correspond to the biology. Gender, in other words, isn’t based on the physical or biological sex … Read More

It seems that there has been some discussion over the question of whether bisexuality exists. Some time after the terms heterosexual and homosexual were first introduced into the vernacular, people began to debate whether or not there is a third orientation which encompasses aspects of both. The term bisexual was coined and has been used ever since. Initially, it was thought that bisexuality was a 50/50 split, meaning that bisexuals were equally attracted to the opposite sex and people of … Read More

Consent. What does it mean and how does it apply to sexual behaviors and interactions? Is nudity a sexual expression? Consequently, can one person’s nakedness be considered an intrusion into another person’s privacy? Questions, always questions. Yes, but can there be real answers without first establishing what the questions are? Simply put, no. Question number one: What is consent? Go ahead, take a moment or two to formulate your answer. Once you’ve got it crystallized you may proceed. BUFFERING………………. OK. … Read More